Do you think our Relationship are going smooth or?
Don’t you think ever that your Relationship is not that much as strong as it should be? I remember that in past few decades there will be a drastic change occurs in our mentality. we became more selfish,egotsic and yes ,a we became a introvert person but this personality we shown only for our own personal relatives , parents and with all those whom they cares about us.
Directly I want to say that we have a extrovert personality for all those only which we want to talk or spend time like friends and it can be your gadgets, on social media we share everything ,about every activity we eager to post, m I right ? but we never fell necessary to tell about day to day activity to our loved ones who cares for us?
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I found some reason behind this.
Whom I care or love, is more important for me or Whom they care me or love me Well ,this is a tragedy that we choose the first point.(whom I care…)
Why are relationships so hard today? Why do we fail at love every time, despite trying so hard? Why have humans suddenly become so inept at making relationships last? Have we forgotten how to love? Or worse, forgotten what love is?
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I remember that when I was a kid I usually talk about every single thing to my mom and as much as I excited to told her everything, my mother have the same level of excitement to listen. This build our relation more stronger. Now after growing up and settle in our life we get too much busy that we cant give them their desire time as we are not able to show affection every time but it doesn’t matter in strong relations but if this frequency goes faster and continue then it becomes a matter and relations falls down and one day they became so much weak that a small misunderstanding or a small mistake easily breaks our relations.
So first I should point out the reason why our relation are not strong:
We’re not prepared. We’re not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We’re not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We’re quitters
We’re the practical generation who runs by logic alone. We don’t know how to love madly anymore. We wouldn’t take a flight to a far-off land just to see someone we love. We’d break up because, long distance. We’re too sensible for love. Too sensible for our own good
3.Scared generation :
scared to fall in love, scared to commit, scared to fall, scared to get hurt, scared to get our hearts broken. We don’t allow anyone in, nor do we step out and love anyone unconditionally.
We don’t even value relationships anymore. We let go of the most wonderful people for ‘the other fishes in the sea.’ We don’t consider them sacred anymore
Technology helps us to come close with our loved ones but here I see its visa versa .they are distract each other ,busy in their cell phones and social life and forget personal life…
So these are the diseases for a good relationship now some medicines are as follows:
- 1.Quality time and family relationships
2.Positive communication and family relationships
3.Positive non-verbal communication
5.Appreciation for each other and family relationships
6.patience (don’t get hurt in small things
So I think this article will be helpful for understanding the relations and please make your effort to make it strong.